Jun 26, 2011

415. Have You Ever Really Loved A Woman


Every man should listen to this song carefully, every word of it. It can save a lot of heartaches and headaches for all involved. Believe me.

This post is for all the men out there.

First, you’ve got to spend time with her, in order to really understand her. But at the same time, respect her space without playing games. If you don’t even want to make an effort to understand her, it probably means that you are only in for some fun. Well then, there are many result-oriented girls in the pubs or clubs, you will get along just fine. And if you are in for breeding, perhaps you can try to mail-order a bribe.

“To really love a woman, to understand her
You gotta know her deep inside
Hear every thought, see every dream
And give her wings when she wants to fly”

Second, ALL women need to be reassured about the future. Yes, women are all after security and forever. If she can’t imagine waking up every morning with the same man for the rest of her lives, if she has any doubts, or you need to be convinced and chased, she will simply gives up and moves on.

“When you love a woman
You tell her, that she's really wanted
When you love a woman you tell her that she's the one
'Cuz she needs somebody
To tell her that it's gonna last forever
'Cuz she needs somebody
To tell her that you'll always be together”

Third, intimacy is the key to attachment. She will give her heart to the man who can take her to fly together, not just you flying solo.

“To really love a woman, let her hold you
Till you know how she needs to be touched
You've gotta breathe her, really taste her
Till you can feel her in your blood”

Next, you will find yourself falling deeper and getting attached as well, which will make you vulnerable. But if you don’t give your heart too, she will soon feel that and leave you and your heart alone. You know she can make you happy, but can you make her happy too? You want her love, but can you love her too?

“Then when you find yourself lying helpless in her arms
You know you really love a woman”

Finally, after she gives you her heart, never, ever take her for granted. You have to treat her right and hold her tight, with your love, trust and respect. Then she will love you more than she loves herself.

“You've got to give her some faith, hold her tight
A little tenderness, you gotta treat her right
She will be there for you, taking good care of you
You really gotta love your woman”

Now tell me, have you ever really loved a woman?